Azhira, Well I'm popping in here to see what's going with you. I am SO impressed with how patient you are. Have you always been this patient or did this come from DB'ing??
I feel bad for JD too. It would seem she is going to be doubly crushed if she's leaves her H and then the R with your XH ends as well. She seems to be quite a needy person and both R's seem to be a bad idea for her.
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Possibly at some point, say to him, that if he truely cares about HER wellbeing... then it's fairly clear that she has a problem with getting too involved with MEN, than is healthy for her.
That's why I completely agree with this. It's not really fair to her. Too weird that I'm discussing what's fair to HER!!! I just found myself thinking today how my H's OW should at some point realize that she's not being fair to him given that he's got a newborn and just left me 2 mths ago. Yeah right, like she's got a moral bone in her body!
You sound like you've got your own head straight though and that's the important part! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
