It is amazing that it take something so extreme to wake us up! I was the same way, and didn't really appreciate what my H did for me over the years! But now I make sure to tell him know how much I appreciate him! Its so important to be appreciated, and to appreciate!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!