May i suggest you telling H at the time you move into your awesome new room. When you do also tell him you thought that was kind of what he wanted since you were trying to read his mind.
Really, this does sound very positive the way H is acting. Just stay semi dark and make sure he works through everything before you let him back in.
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
