All hope is lost/help

[Evie]

Update on this morning, because i feel like s**t now.

H emailed me first thing about a holiday he had on hold for 16/12 for the boys and himself. He wanted to know if i minded if he took some money from the business and another account to fund it.

I'm afraid i reacted negatively (not to the holiday, but the funding, I said what he had, I wanted) and have got drawn into an email banter with him, saying totally the wrong things and been totally selfish and resulting in H now been angry with me and saying some reactive things, some are far comment, some are not, but it basically boils down to a lack of communication & misunderstanding. I have emailed to say i'm sorry and asked him NOT to contact me at work, because i'm too busy to think and make the right decision. I said we need to discuss boundaries on spending as we seem to differ on opinions.

Tomorrow is another day.