Sorry you are have such a difficult time - you don't deserve this. You are a good person and a great mother - it shows through your posts and the advice that you give to others. Many of us here appreciate all the things you have pointed out to us - the cold splash of reality. I know that your perspective is blunt sometimes, but clear headed.
I hope that you will seek C for yourself - even if H does not attend. You need another outlet for your frustrations, someone who is objective and can suggest other alternatives. H is probably not ready for C - he may never be - male ego thing. But do not wait for H - go for yourself.
