Just a quick hi..I don't think I really have anything to add, although as Tony said alot of us would kill to have some of what you have..I really believe you have not even begun to forgive your h...sure the past still hurts..but you have to get beyond that..your h does not sound like he was ever the kind of lovey dovey, romantic, talker that you want him to be..we don't know we're not there..but I know my h never has been, so I will have to try and look at what attracted me to him long ago..IF I get a 2nd chance..you have been given that chance for a new m...you might have to lower expectations of what it was or what you think it should be. Keep strong..you have done so much for you and you deserve it.
