Quote: Does he even know how you want to be loved - maybe he's trying to love you the way he wants to be loevd?
he does show me in his own way... his way... take care of car when it needs some service (it's hard for me to get there with the kiddos) make the lawn look nice (but gee is that for me or him, I don't need a perfectly manicured yard I like green grass but weeds don't bother me and I like the more natural look not the rough edged beds he does..so is that for me??) he works to provide (but I tend to think he'd work anyway..his business after all was his dream and he loves it. he tends to the kids more (but again is that me he's loving or is he simply realizing the benifit of being a good daddy?
h knows what I want and need...I've asked for what I want many times over the years..sometimes he obliges but then lags off...got the job secure now you can slack off.
