Wow, great IM! It's nice when they come to these conclusions on their own.
It's such a hard balance between giving them space to figure stuff out and showing love and trying to encourage intimacy. Maybe the first step is to give them enough space to figure themselves out, then we can begin to get closer and form that intimacy.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track