Quote: you moving out may only make your home open to om and I don't think you want that.
LL,
At this point, I almost don't care, it's like having a whore for a wife!
Now, back to you!
Quote: a distance has started to grow again...
LL, I think it is YOU distancing. FORGET about the OW. I'm sure your business needs all the customers it can handle, even if they are on the same street! If you ask him if she is still a customer, and she is, he will lie. Not because he is still seeing her, but because he doesn't want to hurt you.
Look, he's home! He doesn't go to his apartment, he doesn't appear to be seeing OW, he threw his 2nd cell phone phone away, you're snuggling, hugging, and going out. Do you know how many people on this BB would kill to be where you are right now?
Sure, you have the right to be suspicious. Do not ask about OW! (DR) Work on yourself, SHOW him you love him. Make him want you!
Have you asked him to give up his apartment to further reassure you? Also read page 212 "Be Patient"
When I had my A, I was always in close proximity of OW after W and I got back together, but only a friendly hello, and absolutlely no desire to be with her, because W was taking GREAT care of me at home! OW even called W and told her to leave town, because I was in love with her! W asked me if she should leave, and I assured her NO! Of course W and you never forgave me for 23 years, until she finially decided to dump me!
You are always telling me to look at your sit and compare it to mine. You were once where I am right now, and you keep encouraging me to hang in there! I'm not so sure I want to be where you are right now! Read, read, read, DR, page 217, and 218 "Back In My Heart Again" Your emotions are normal. I would gladly trade places with you! Wait, that doesn't sound too good, I sound like a gay guy! I mean having my W back in my heart, or me back in her heart!
