He hasn't mentioned anything yet...so I went to the box office and found that they have been sold out for a couple of weeks, so I don't think she has tickets. I put my name on a waiting list, and if I get tickets I will invite him for his birthday present. Sounds devious, but I really want to see this band. If he won't go, I'll ask a friend from work. I know she is not on the waiting list because I'm the first one on there. We have been getting along really well lately, and I wanted to get him something for his birthday so this is it. That it has the added bonus of messing up her plans is gravy.