I am sad right now. I know we are not supposed to let WAS's moods and the rollercoaster get to us but its hard today.

He really hasn't done anything to make me mad. He just sort of changed again. Sure, he still checks in with a few text messages through the day, but since Sunday has made no effort to see me or spend any time with me. I haven't seen him since Sunday. Yes, I was gone with my daughter most of yesterday and last night but not Monday and not at all today. We both have our kids starting today for the next few days so I wonder when I will even see him again. Maybe the weekend.

Makes me wonder if he is hiding something or just wants to be a loner. I know OW hasn't been around and I also know that my exdh loves time to himself. This just really bugs me. I haven't made any mention of coming over or seeing eachother like I would normally do as I wanted to see what kind of effort he would put in...I guess nothing.

How do two people work on stuff when they don't even see eachother except when there is nothing better to do?

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!