hi Lin, today was not good day. just felt that I couldnt go on wondering where H is everyday. H is self employed so he can go where ever he wants mon-fri,8-5. when he got home today i asked if he unplugged the phone at his apt so ow cant call anymore and he said no. i said then go over there until you decide to unplug it,so he left again. me and son are very sad. h is making no attempt to make marriage better.