LL -
I love the story about your H throwing the phone out the window!!

Just as my H was starting to come around (about a week before he told me ILY) he was driving home from the airport and checking his voicemail messages and there was one from the OW. He called and left her a message not to call him, then took the battery out of his phone so he could be sure she didn't call him back! (I don't think his phone has worked quite right since! )

We still had some things to go through but this was really the moment things started to turn around - when he realized he resented her intruding on the new life he was building with me. So be happy about it LL - be very happy. And I love the way he told/showed you. I can see why you like this guy!

Ellie