One more random question for all of you: What do I do about Christmas? In the past I "showered" her with gifts. What do I do now?
Difficult question - At least as far as I'm concerned, we're just doing it as normal. W has already set some lofty standards for gifts (She told me she wanted to get me an Xbox), but we'll see. This is the first year in a while we've had extra cash individually to spend on gifts, so I want to make the most of it. Of course, D is going to want some toys too, so I need to budget around that.
I'm going to for useful things that she will appreciate, rather than anything too 'lovey'.