When I read your post re; the convo w/ you W my stomach did a few turns.
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I'm not looking for anyone to blow sunshine up my buttocks, but she did exhibit a few new behaviors today. Any thoughts? She has never expressed a willingness to talk about her feelings about me since, um, April. Seven months solid. Now, perhaps a tiny crack?
There appears to be new behavior, only it isn't exactly what I'd call positive. She doesn't want to talk about her feelings with you, & pushing/twisting/creating opportunities to bring about a R talk will almost definitely send her further away.
I know it's difficult to hear that someone doesn't want to be with you. The C yesterday told me that my H isn't present for me &, like that book title "He's Just Not That Into You", has had no interest in being with me.
Even though that's an ouch, it's the reality of where he is. It's a good thing my self image is not tied to how he thinks of me, & I know that feelings can change. (just not if I pursue/argue/etc.) Mostly from this board & DR, etc., I see that a mention of how we could be future "soul mates", would send him running for the hills to get away. It would have the same effect on me, afterall.
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I still need to put my thoughts together about what I know of my W, my occasional mentions that I think if I could get her to talk things might move in a good direction, and all of this DBing and other, similar R advice stuff. Maybe I'm just too stubborn. Probably.
