Oh Morgan, I am so sorry. It's the sort of thing little girls talk about all the time and it just has a horrid trigger for you.
My H slept with OW on my youngest D's 8th B'bay. Now whenever my D talks about her B'day and what she wants and what theme party she wants etc I still want to be physically sick and that's with H still with me. I just couldn't believe he could pick such a memorable date. OW and her H have thae same wedding anniversary as us. These things come back and make us spin.
(((((((HUGS)))))))))
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength