Plank removed from eye, too late for WAW? 8

[Heimlich]

GD,

I don't agree with your assessment that I'm trying to control my W. It's obviously coming across that way to you, but that's not what I intend at all.

My error was realizing that what I was doing via email sounded like a fishing expedition (about what she was doing) when it wasn't, then calling to tell her I wasn't on a fishing expedition, that whatever she was doing was fine and then I started talking/responding honestly to her question.

She called back the second time. Not me.

She also called me about an hour ago to apologize for the tone of an email that she sent to me.

Look, I knew most of what you and OT said above when I hung up the phone after the first call this morning.

I'm not looking for anyone to blow sunshine up my buttocks, but she did exhibit a few new behaviors today. Any thoughts? She has never expressed a willingness to talk about her feelings about me since, um, April. Seven months solid. Now, perhaps a tiny crack?

Going to do my best to reestablish LRT mindset.

I still need to put my thoughts together about what I know of my W, my occasional mentions that I think if I could get her to talk things might move in a good direction, and all of this DBing and other, similar R advice stuff. Maybe I'm just too stubborn. Probably. Accept. Move on. Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

BD