Quote: Wonderful,! But if I may, WHACK WHACK WHACK!!! Your H made a *grand gesture*. He knew what it meant. You know he's not stupid. If your reticent to trust that it will have long term meaning, that is up to you. But, you've got to recognize your H for this wonderful thing, even if you are still scared!. A wedding ring is just symbolic too, you know. I say, do something wonderful for your H to show how much this meant, and that you're willing to trust a bit more...
I didn't NOT react....I was simply speachless and said so...I did thank him and was being silly when I called him a litter bug...I know the phone does represent ow to me and h knows that so it was a gesture but not one deserving a grand reception there are still other things that must be thrown away and if I celebrate to big for the small steps how will I celebrate the big ones??
still to be thrown out the window??
h's apartment ow as customer h to ask me to put my rings back on or hell propose with a new one.
baby steps...baby steps...
if we throw a big party for each small step we'll be worn out before we reach the big party.
I did again this am mention the phone being hurled out the window...told him he was silly and thanked him...gave him a hug...he just smiled his silly smile.
