Well, I'm not sure if it's even OM. She's never even met the guy. She claims that he's just a friend (she found on craigslist). She claims there are no romantic interest from him. She claims she has no romantic interest for him at the moment. Although I somehow suspect if he shows some interest toward her she would jump all over that. I deducted that from when previously I asked about if she has any romantic interest with any of the people she talks to and she said no very quickly. But when I asked after she had contact with this guy, there was some pause and a few I don't knows, and not right nows. She did comment on he's good looking and supposedly a nice guy. Of course she has also stated she's no longer physically or mentally attracted to me (but is emotionally, whatever that means. Any woman want to enlighten me on that?). I don't get how you can stop being physically attracted to someone. Either you think somebody looks attractive to you or not whether you like them or not.... One time she was texting while driving when the kids and I are riding as passengers. I asked her not to do that and that was ignored. Is it that important to text this guy that she can't do that after we arrive to our destination? And then the cell phone fell under the seat, and she spent the entire time fishing for it while driving when we were 5 minutes away from the house. I just don't get it....
Oh yeah, she asked me if it's ok to invite this guy over for Thanksgiving last night. I said if you have any romantic interest in this guy I really do not feel comfortable with that. If no then I don't care. So she says, fine, are we having thanksgiving meal as lunch or dinner? She said she'll just invite him over when I'm not there. WTF? Now I'm only allowed to be at the house part of the day on Thanksgiving and not allowed to be with my kids because her possible potential romantic interest has no place to be during Thanksgiving? Of course she puts that as she doesn't like to see anyone alone on Thanksgiving. Well, obviously he was just fine before meeting her....
Ok....me done venting....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
