new here. Feel like dying

[ms ladybug]

Thanks.
I don't want it to seem like I'm saying "no" to him, but I really want him to see how unrealistic it is of him to make me commit to something like this, with our marriage as crappy as it is. Makes NO sense to me that this would even be an option, much less a "condition".

Off to check out the guidelines at marriagebuilders....