I wouldn't necessarily call it controlling as much as asking her to actually give the weekend a chance to work. If she wants to be calling/texting OM at that time, she might as well stay home as far as I'm concerned.
My own opinion, of course, your mileage may vary.
Last edited by LostInMN; 11/14/0709:09 PM.
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.