Long road Time now to bring OM into the Picture

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She has admitted she is in contact with OM, but she does not know that I know any details. We are separated we split time @ my parents vacation house. Lately we have been under the same roof more than we are not due to the fact that she wants me to stay there for some reason or another and the last week she has been recovering from surgrey so I let her stay with me on my week. We are also going on a family vacation over the Thanksgiving holiday. Basically she feels that she can go ahead and move forward with another man while I am still there to be the family guy.

I really feel she is lost and moving to OM so quickly and not even figuring herself out is not going to help. She also is being more and more distant with our children. I really feel like I need to say something to and try to get her attention and I mean this not in a way of trying to get her back. I am just in shock really I look it her and its like it is not the same woman at all.