"There were three "dealbreakers" that I laid out for her when she begged me back. Write a "no-contact" letter to OM, agree to total transparency (esp. cell phone # change, with new phone's detailed billing coming to me), and get tested for STDs.
She did none of them."
Choc,
Just caught up. I thought in your earlier post you meant that she hadn't violated any of the dealbreakers, not that she hadn't complied with them.
Perfectly reasonable dealbreakers. I'd say she's broken the deal.
Good luck with the D, let the Ls handle it, keep it business. W is only going to get less cooperative as time goes on. I don't see any reason to delay unless you find a reason to do so over the holidays. I think with all you've done personally, you'll be amazed at the life you have a year from now.
