No problem Just_Me. We all have our own views.

Maybe I am just not at a point where I can see this. And I have actually read that WASs are weighed down by the guilt, not that they would ever admit that...I just see anger as a negative emotion, not positive, even though yes it is ok to be angry. Their choices and realities to me hit them up by showing anger.

The positive spin is what keeps me going, when there is no way to possibly know what they are thinking or doing. Just my optimistic take I guess.

Sorry markyb, didn't mean to hijack your post.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.