sorry - but I have another question. The last time the kids visited me she said she felt guilty (about what she did not say) when they got back. I, of course, ruined the mmoment by teling her how great she looked and how much I wanted to save the marriage. A mistake I won't make again. My question is this -- is this a common feeling from WAW's? She of course has a free weekend & I don't know what she will be doing, but I wonder if seeing the stress on the kids about "visiting" actually places more thoughts on what if this M was really over and this is how are life will be?
