I hate not being able to sleep. One thing that helps me is Melatonin, it's sold in the vitamin section. My problem is waking up and not being able to go back to sleep. The melatonin lets me go back to sleep a lot easier. It didn't help right after the bomb when my anxiety was really high, but since that has tapered off, it works fine.
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I asked what OM did and D5 says "Nothing.. he just put her in a room until she stopped crying"
What a piece of work your W is.
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I agree and now don't feel so bad about my confused state. Seems nobody has a good answer!!
Ok, how about this revision?
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Played off as much as possible. W said "Hey.. I really like our talk last night" which is funny because we really didn't talk.
Now.. I stared at her for a minute.. thought about what to say and gave a forced
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'And now, your highness, we will discuss the location of your hidden rebel base..."
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
That's funny... or how about "And now you will give me the combination"
Oh.. wait a minute. That's Spaceballs!!
So W called while taking D5 to school... I let it roll. I was busy.
Turns out D5 is not feeling very well.. W was wondering if I had any money for her to take D5 to the doctors.
If anything will keep us from EVER getting back together, it's the money situation. I'm sure you all will be shocked to hear that my W is very selfish I know.. I couldn't believe it either!!
Anyway.. her stuff has ALWAYS been more important. I've told her no less than 5 times over the last couple of days that I had no money for her (started with souvenir money on Saturday).
She told me last night that she is very worried about this upcoming CS/Paycheck.. she has phone, gas & electric, cell phone, oh yeah.. the horses..
Boo Hoo
I feel for you.
We are planning D(soon to be 3)'s B-day. I explicitly warned her that I will not be able to accept "Can you pay and I'll pay you back" at the party. Said it 2-3 times no less. We'll see.
On a funny note.. Just got an invitation to a friend of W's kids b-day party. It's a double party.. we never really hung out with them much. W has a bad habit of totally isolating people.
Anyway.. I guess she's heard. Guess who the invite was addressed to:
I know the money thing can be difficult--been there done that. Having said that, in your place I would pay for the Dr. appointment. I know it lets W off the hook for her responsibility, but it is for your D.
You might call the Dr. office and give them a credit card number. That way you wouldn't have to give W any cash. Or, you could take D to the Dr. yourself--that way you get to assess if she is really sick, or if W is just jerking your chain to get you to fork over some cash.
I agree with you.. but I truly don't have the money. That's one of the reasons we are in this mess. She likes to spend money and I could never tell her no.
So I'm negative at the moment. I'm sure she has money. She just sets thresholds. She probably has $100 + in her account but has it earmarked for a bill 2 weeks from now.. or for the horses.
Matter of fact, now that I think about it.. she's probably looking at her stack of bills and saying "That won't leave me much.."
Grrr..
Besides.. it's in the order that whoever has custody that day incurs the medical costs.. keeps it fair.
Oh yeah... no question of the CS.. she would either:
A. Argue that the horses are for the D's too. B. Say nope.. I use my paycheck for that C. All of the above
I just clued to the fact you're paying her CS and she's boarding horses. WTF?
Are those horses marital property?
Ok, just kidding. I like horses too. I just happen not to have any because I can't afford them.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
I know.. I couldn't believe it either!! 
