I agree with you.. but I truly don't have the money. That's one of the reasons we are in this mess. She likes to spend money and I could never tell her no.

So I'm negative at the moment. I'm sure she has money. She just sets thresholds. She probably has $100 + in her account but has it earmarked for a bill 2 weeks from now.. or for the horses.

Matter of fact, now that I think about it.. she's probably looking at her stack of bills and saying "That won't leave me much.."

Grrr..

Besides.. it's in the order that whoever has custody that day incurs the medical costs.. keeps it fair.

Oh yeah... no question of the CS.. she would either:

A. Argue that the horses are for the D's too.
B. Say nope.. I use my paycheck for that
C. All of the above

I've heard C before.

Another reason why I refused "Alimony"