He tried to say I wouldn't do it for my kids and I said not to throw them into it, guilt wouldn't work, it was between him and I. ================ true, he's trying to manipulate you with the kids, but you caugh on!
If he keeps insisting this is a permanent sitch, more of a reason for him to be responsible for feeding the kids with HIS money at his place. I wonder if a set schedule would be beneficial and predictable and better for the kids.
I know how kids forget and I've also been told last min. about a function at my kids' school. To avoid that, make sure you check your kids' calendar and that you let your kid know to remind his dad about an upcoming event.
Hope your job holds up, will pray for you.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.