How can I top those past few responses?? We all know those feelings to different degrees. Bob said it great about chosing to trust and forgive, you have to convince your mind to let these thoughts go. It is so hard..and what you said about finding these place..amen..I too would not have known when to shut up. I keep having people tell me how well I have handled this, as most of the time seperation usually means the next step to d. Keep working on the things you know need attention..let some of the petty stuff go. Sue
