I know it is hard with kids...especially when they know what is happening...but I don't think you have to worry too much about his childhood innocense being taken from him...what happen's is they see you two go through a very tough time...but somehow work things out...I think this instills in them a very vital message that you don't give up...
Yep, my H's OW was supposedly abused by her H...he didn't support her...she had some huge bills that H paid for her...so I am sure she thought she was getting herself a sugar daddy...little did she know...