It's been a while since I last wrote to you. Remember how I said our wives were very similar? There is no pleasing them under any circumstances? That they are filled with unrelenting, undifferentiated anger? You have to face it. There is NOTHING you can do to please your w. right now, and maybe there never will be. In some cases, people turn a switch "off" and they can never turn it on again. You have to start worrying about YOU at ths point. Let her go. Don't pursue. It just gets us more anguish. Let her go. Get to the point where you can convince yourself it's over. It may not be, but if you can get there, you'll be in a much better place. I feel your pain. It is so frustrating. No matter WHAT you say, it's like walking on eggshells. You know you won't hit the target, no matter what you do. I get that feeling, but it is impossible to fix. It's in their head, not ours. It's easy for us. They don't even know why they're angry
