Help/Advice

[craig54]

wooglint, keep up the hard work. my situation is very similar to yours. uncanny how similar. i am db'ing, successfully, for the most part. no pressure, no ily on my part, that is very hard for me, because i always told her ily. alot of respect for each other. very little if any affection. she is definitely emotionally detached from me. she also said i was a great husband and father but did not romantic feelings anymore. at times i can tell she is having a hard time. she says she wants a divorce but has only partially filled the paper work out. she says we will have to sell the house but has not lifted a finger to get it ready to sell. we are just in limbo, living our daily lives. also recently she has lost over 115lbs. so i think this has alot do do with her confusion, because she went from 260lbs to 140lbs. she looks fantastic. i just need to keep the faith and follow the dr book, also dobson book. be strong.