CL,

Im'e sorry you feel that way and then go about your business works for me as you validate but, do not take the blame.

You and I always seem to be kind of in the same sitch as to the way to handle assertiness.

I will need to get that book "Your Perfect Right"

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez