From the 'do as I say, not as I do' perspective, yeah, leave her be and back off from her for a while. Let her come to you.

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.