Yes...she has pulled way back to how she was before the 'I want to 100% work on it' line. I know she's really confused. I gave her a back rub yesterday and she thanked me for it. She said good night to me last night before going to bed. I asked her to come over and lay down for a minute or two. She said no R talk and no touching. I rubbed her back for awhile while we talked about nonsense for 15 minutes or so. I think she was enjoying the comfort of it but as soon as she realized that, said good nite and went to bed. To me the 'no touching, no intimacy' stance is interesting. I think it's because she likes it, but is afraid it will connect or attach her to me? I think she enjoys it but wont admit it.
I guess I have smothered her for a few days. Its hard because I really felt we were really going to move to work it out. She talked about things in the future and was physical with me. Now...I am the demon again. Wont look me in the eye, etc.
do I just completely leave her alone again? She has made herself so busy at work, not sure she would even notice.
