Trying to get them to read something is like trying to get them to see it your way and is considered pursuing and will make them see in their head why they don't want to be with you right now, so I would not do it.
You need to try to detach and do your own thing and be mysterious it does work.
Reread DR if you have to as many times as you have to.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
