Thank-you for the compliment, iv'e learned so much through DR and the people on these boards do read all you can.
I do not say ILY first, not since iv'e read DR.
I know what you mean im'e kind of looking forward to 5 days without H home so I can breath and let myself go a little without H looking at me. Although i still have H's dad to handle nursing home things and hospital transferes and such. H's sister that usually handles that stuff since she is POA is out of town with her son having a new baby (his first) so we made her go. Told her you just can't sit and wait for something that might not happen anytime soon so go be there.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
