Quote: Oddly enough, my DBing journey really began the day I gave up on getting the support I wanted from my H and began taking better care of myself.
I have to keep reminding myself that these are my feelings and my issues..and though I do like to share my feelings and my issues with h...h can't help me with these ones...and I shoudn't expect him to. should I??
I wonder...why do men send flowers? why do men say, I'm sorry you feel that way?? why do people marry if not to be a support to eachoether in times of need...in times of despair...yes friendship, companionship, family, caring for the household and all that are important but should I face everything alone?? I know I can and have...but h could help me with these feelings...all he'd have to do is say...I'm sorry your feeling down today...we'll hang out tonight and cuddle on the couch...I'll be home soon. I love you LL and we'll get through this. but h wont say those things anymore.
h is not bad...h is not ignorant...h is not intentionally patronizing...it was his way of letting me know where he had been all day...but really I didn't need the itinerary what I needed or rather wanted were some words to let me know I needent be insecure.
I suppose I should appologize to h and admit once again that these feelings are mine and I need to deal with them myself not looking for him to do it for me.
