Yes, my wife worked before we had kids. In fact she was quite sucessful. It was her choice to stay home with the kids and she has said its was what she wanted to do.

I have been thinking that this could be a MLC of some sort. She just turned 39 a week before I got the ILYBNITW talk. Also, I just received a huge promo at work a couple months ago.

I'm definitely trying to work on me.

Thanks for the support.