My Wife wants out..still!!

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Interesting Heim and Jeff that you see him as so angry. I didn't get that from his post, only that he working through a tough situation and is at one point where we all have been.

It took my H awhile to see that he WAS putting our S in the middle of our convos and his R with the OW, and I had to put my foot down. Kids come first. Sometimes the WAS needs a good smack in the face to have the reality hit of what they are doing to their family. For my H, it was taking my S to the counselor so that he could hear from someone objectively on the affects on the children. And it hit him hard.

To me, it seems his W is putting the children in the middle first, not just markyb.