Thanks Peaceful and HB. I agree with you both as well, and I'm doing fine...challenging the insecurities and keeping my attitude positive.

H has called several times, he sounds open and upbeat, so I'll go with that. I kept myself pretty busy yesterday and last night, and got myself put to bed nice and early. It feels so nice!

HB--your comment..."I was once again attached and could not throw him out (immediately, anyways) so I choose to accept his answers as the truth."...really rings true for me too. Sometimes I feel confused when I think about this though, because I think that at some point enough should be enough...I guess I just haven't reached my absolute limit yet. I'm hoping I don't have to get there. \:\)


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y