Originally Posted By: lwb
Mark, she is avoiding you for the same reasons. Its can get difficult to approach these things.


You know, you may be right. Either she plans to go see her father and he has invited me and she has to ask me but doesn't want to... or she has no plans. Either way, it's kinda tough on her as well. She knows she has hurt me, and doesn't want to hurt me any more. There is an outside chance she will be driving to see her boyfriend. Not likely, though.

Originally Posted By: lwb
I am terrified to ask H about Disney in February (our annual trip, but its his family's timeshare). I really don't want to hear "I'm taking them on my own". Ouch City.


Yeah, I can believe that. But I imagine that your February trips to WDW will need to stop anyway, because of a conflicting school schedule... right?

Originally Posted By: lwb


I think you are doing the right thing by asking her today while you are out of town. Get the plans set. I am sorry if she excludes you from visiting her family. Can you make plans another time to see them, and just say "Well, I didn't get to see them on Thanksgiving, and I missed that...."



Not sure how to handle it. I do need to go see her father for another flying lesson, so I will be going to see him sometime in the near future. I will just play it by ear...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9