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here's a wwyd. h bought d3 a jumper back in september. he was at an irish fest with ow (gag) so I'm sure she helped pick it out. that jumper has sat in her closet ever since...I just can't put it on her. do you all think I should just suck it up and put it on her? or should I just pack it in the suitcase when h has them and he can put it on her himself if he wants to? am I being petty by not putting it on her?


Well....ugh....saffie has a good point. You know we tread lightly with our H's because they feel railroaded, unheard, etc....so maybe you should put it on her. Or pack it to go with H. Does *she* want to wear it? Maybe that will help you decide.....

Why must they make us be the bigger person? Its a PITA sometimes. ;\)