The A is over and I believe that OM is at home working on repairing his marriage as well. I know that my W is still in the fog and I know her well enough to say that she does not want to deal with the reality of what she did. She is much too romantic and idealistic in that sense, always believed that our love and all that would carry us through life's struggles. I guess she strayed a little.
Obviously we had some issues aside from the baby making and I know that I was probably a little depressed and a couch potatoe in many ways. I have as I said rolled up a pile of sleeves and worked on GAL. I also do my fair share of the chores and help out with my W's business, she works from home so now when it is busy much of the house is a staging area or factory. I love it, and I do enjoy helping out.
I am busy with curling, 3 or 4 nights a week, so by choice I am not then rushing out to see other friends, perhaps I should.
The A was ended basically because the OM's wife walked in on them so they were caught red handed and she then called me. That was late July. The day after my W wanted to see him and they did and at that time just wanted to be friends and have our lives back to the way they were before. Talk about some heavy heavy fog.
Thanks for listening, and we are all working for the same thing, so may we all have a little success in some nice way,
