[/quote]I guess the messages don't bother me as much as dh's reaction. He is hell bent on me not assuming these have nothing to do with him. [quote]
SO2,
These texts are not about him but about her and her insecurities. That is if it is her texting( which there is a good chance of that).
But i do wonder if there is still contact from him to her. If you don't see proof of that then let it go with him, as it only serves to keep their R alive.
IF he didn't have contact and that is why she is texting you and you get solid proof of that then maybe he will begin to see her as vindictive and not the person he thought she was.
Just like JDV said keep DBing and acting as if (but don't be a doormat just because you want him back) and she will dig her own grave.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
