Wedding band now gone, hers that is -

[Michael Mc C]

I'm afraid I'm not familiar with your sitch so I'll have to go back and read it. Do you file as a LRT (per the DR book) or did you do this simply because you've had enough of her not doing anything?

I hate to see my wife hurt, concerned, overwhelmed, etc. but there is very little that I am willing to do when any of those issues are directly linked to her decisions. It's the 'you made your bed...' syndrome, so to speak.

What have you done to try to regain respect in her eyes? Is there more that you can do?