I caught wind that somebody was worried because I haven't updated my thread... so here goes:
Thanks h... that's OK about the old email. Just trying to shift all email to the one listed on my profile. The wife knows about the other one, and I just want to be prepared in the event she asks me for the password. If she asks, I will give her a quid pro quo (I'll show you mine if you'll you show me yours... password, that is... ). She doesn't know about the yahoo email in my db profile...
Just kicking around thoughts here...
My brother and sister have both contacted me regarding Thanksgiving. Not sure why, but I am reluctant to bring it up with the wife. I guess I don't enjoy hearing another reminder from her that she does not want to spend time with me. Heck, it's painful when somebody you barely know says (or implies it). Imagine if a neighbor you barely knows says, "Well if you are going to be there, I don't want to go." Ouch.
So I am avoiding the subject with her. I also don't want to hear that she is taking the kids to see her father (about 250 miles) and I am not welcome to join them (although her father and step-mom would explicitly invite me - they would make a point doing so). So I think that she has not broached the subject with them either.
I am traveling this week, so when I talk to her today, I will ask her about Thanksgiving. Thanks everybody for talking me into it.