More drama here - my wife was notified that I had filed for D a while ago. You are required to acknowledge this notification, but she refused, not sending anything back to the court. After two mailings, she got a notice in the mail telling her to call the police, which she did.
A few hours later, with both kids home, a policeman knocks on the door, asking to speak to her. She meets him, has to sign, and now the acknowledgement is done and the countdown is rolling.
Since then she hardly says a thing to me, and we avoid each other. Will this improve? It is hard to be home together (where we both work) and not communicate for hours and hours...
It makes me sad how she is hurt by this, but she did not want to work on our M, saying it was unfixable (she says she could never respect me, even with counseling, as I am not enough of a man, not strong enough).
The only steps now are my final decision in about 6 to 12 months, yes or no, and figuring out what we do with us, the house and the kids.
What a downer getting divorced is.
The ironic thing behind it all is that I still love her -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
