Great going. She is begining to panic as the safety net is taken away.
Agree with all the comments (apart from not using the dark side of the Force...metallic breathing sounds), it sounds like she is a user and needs to be validated all the time. Failing to do that means that she does the chasing.
My suggestion if she asks about her, just respond with 'you look nice' and resist any temptation to go further than that.
