Hi J, community property states are interesting by the way. If you were to file for D, he then would be unable to make the home purchase at all as it binds you to not add to the financial debts of the marriage from the date of filing until the D is final.
Maybe let him know this and point out that if you were merely trying to be vindictive, that we be the route you would have gone.
I read through your posts since your return from Hawaii, I agree with Kev, somethings Fishy. I would be extremely careful as you proceed with this.
I hope all goes well with the L today. I will post more later when I have more time.
